You have to have a dream in order to have a happy ending…

You have to have a dream in order to have a happy ending. If you have no dream, then you are just spinning your wheels. How you live is completely up to you. So, if you want to have a happy ending, then you absolutely have to have a dream in the first place.

Accept that you actually have a dream. Something that might be hidden in the corner of your mind somewhere. Something that you might have put off until “another day.” I will start on it another “year”. Why not start on your dream today???

What is wrong with cleaning the dust off your dream, and saying, “OK, I will reconsider my dream. What is wrong with working on your dream one little step at a time? It is better to try and fail, then not try at all. If you do not try, then you will feel guilty that you did not do anything about it. Or you will blame someone else for you not being able to achieve YOUR dream.

I have an for you. Why don’t ¬†you ask someone for a little help? Someone that can help you get started. That someone is called a mentor. That someone can be someone who is in the field that you want to be in. Mentors are awesome because they had to start off somewhere, and they probably have an idea of the difficulty you are going through. Mentors do not do the work for you. Mentor can provide essential guidance that you need. Even if it is to just get started.

You might even be able to find a group that can help you. There are probably people who are in the same situation you are.

A lot of successful people would be more than willing to help another person succeed. It is a law of nature. When you help someone, that help will come back to you. It might not be from that same person that you helped. But, things happen in strange ways.

All this is possible. But you have to acknowledge your dream first. You have to have a dream before you can have a happy ending. Good luck to you.

Pick a dream…and GO FOR IT!

 

John

 

 

 

 

Make a mission statement as specific as possible for your project/dream/goal.

Make sure your goal is as specific as possible. Let’s use the goal of ” I want to be rich”, as an example. If you have in your mind that you want to be rich, as a goal, you are being too general. The goal is so general, that you will not even know if you made it or not. Describe rich. Are you referring to monetary value? If you are earning $10,000 today, how much more do you have to make to consider yourself “rich”?

If you say, “I want to have in my possession $300,000, by December 31, 2020, you have now made a specific target. This new target is so specific. On December 31, 2020, you can know definitely whether you made your goal, or not. Does that make sense?

When you give a specific date in your goal, then you will know between now and then, how much progress, you are or are not making. When you have an idea that you are far away from your specific goal, then it is possible to make adjustments along the way.

I hope this helps you. Set your goal as specific as possible. This will increase your chance of success.

I wish you the best of luck.

Pick a dream…and GO FOR IT!

John